Sunday, January 11, 2009

Proposing Ideas

The one thing that gives everyone a shiver down the spine, is proposing someone. Fear not, we bring you some great Valentine's Day proposing ideas. Read on to know how to go about proposing someone. You will find "priceless" information in our related sections. They cover almost all aspects of starting a relation, on good terms. Check it out and load yourself to step in the world of love.

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How to Propose a Girl

A girl is nature's most wonderful creation. She can love like there is no tomorrow and hate like you wish you would die. She can be a protector, a healer a creator and a destroyer. For proposing a girl, certain things have to be kept in mind. It is a bit tricky but not impossible. We bring you some ideas for proposal to a girl. Following tips shall give you ideas of how to propose a girl.
  • Do your homework. Get to know your girl well, before you pop the question. Get to know her interests, her dislikes, and her general nature that will help you plan your proposal in a better way. If she is shy and an introvert, propose when you two are alone. If she is sporty and loves adventure, then take her for rock climbing and propose when you reach the top.
  • All girls love flowers. So get a huge bouquet of roses and tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you. Tell her you would like to spend the rest of your life with her or alone. Be ready to be smothered by a genuinely happy woman's hug!
  • Appreciate her for what she is. Tell her "you look beautiful" when she does not have any make up on. Tell her she looks amazing when she is having a bad day and mean it. She will love you for it and will readily agree when you propose. Just don't overdo it, as it may look fake.
  • Girls love to be pampered so when you intend to propose, make sure you are chivalrous enough to make her feel special and at the same time not look vulnerable. Women want a strong man, not a wimp.
  • Don't force her to say yes. The worst you can do is to push her around and threaten her dignity. Tell her to take her time and that you shall wait. Be a gentleman and respect her. Incase she doesn't want a relationship, she will let you know of it then and there.

How to Propose a Guy

It is the 21st century and women are as vocal as guys about their feelings. Though proposing has always been a man's job, it is not at all wrong for a woman to take the lead. Somebody has to do it someday. But since not many women are acquainted with the finer aspects of proposing a guy, we bring you some ideas for proposal to a guy. This shall ease your tension and solve the dilemma of how to propose to a guy. So read on about some tried and tested ways of proposing a guy.
  • Guys can be highly emotional and tend to feel vulnerable in overwhelming emotional situations. So make sure you both are in a place that is not too crowded. The idea of proposing your guy in the middle of a game is not very ideal!
  • Make it memorable. A guy loves to be wooed as much as girls do. So propose in the most enjoyable way making the whole moment memorable. Propose in a place that means a lot to him. Maybe a neighborhood park where he grew up chasing squirrels, or the place where you went for your first date, all are special to him and can be made memorable by proposing him there.
  • Not only girls, even guys love to receive flowers. So this Valentine's Day, send him a big bouquet of roses and card in which it is written," Will you marry me?"
  • However you do it, do not show desperation. Guys are not too enthusiastic about marriage and can run faster than a cheetah at the very mention of commitment. Make it steady and don't be too pushy about it and make sure he is comfortable.
  • Make the proposal utterly romantic. Invite him to a bar that is not too crowded or take a corner seat. Slip on that sexy black dress, let down your curls and make sure you look stunning. Order a nice drink and propose him while he takes that last sip. Just make sure he doesn't choke on it!

Ideas for Romantic Proposal

You like her, she likes you. You both absolutely love spending time in each other's company. You have asked him/her out on a date and it is time to take this relationship a step further. Yes, we are talking about a romantic proposal for the one who's very thought brings a smile to your face. The least we can do is give you romantic proposal ideas. We bring you the top 10 ideas for a romantic proposal. Yes, you can stop thanking us and proceed to get some ideas for your special someone.
  • This Valentine's Day make your date special by giving your beloved the best gift of all. Get that ring from the jeweler and pop it up with your question while dining or just when the sun is going down. It is the best gift anyone could give to a loved one. Of course it is difficult to live upto this gift every year!
  • Have your proposal aired on the radio on your beloved's favorite station. Make sure he/she is listening to the station at that time. It is sure to bowl him/her over. It is original and not many have tried this idea yet.
  • Another way of proposing is to hire a glider and get your message written on the sky against the blue backdrop, only if you can afford it. Intercom him/her when you are about to get the message written. Rest assured the answer is going to be a "Yes". Just pray for a safe landing though!
  • Record a personal home video of the moments you spent together. You can also include nicknames you use for each other. Get your friends to re-enact these moments. In the end, the video shows you, proposing your love to your cherished one. Get it delivered to your beloved through a friend along with a bouquet of roses. It sure to win your beloved's heart and there is no way one can reject such a cute proposal.
  • Another great idea for a proposal is to express your love on the big screen. Make a plan for a movie and pre-plan with the manager of the theater to have your proposal aired on the screen just before the movie begins. The always-energetic crowd will be your confidence booster and is sure to get a positive reply for your proposal.
  • Another great idea to propose is on your beloved's birthday. It will make that day so special that it will be etched in his/her memory forever. You can take him/her for dinner and propose when it is just the two of you, or you can do it in front of his/her family and friends.
  • A unique idea is to gift your beloved a jigsaw puzzle. Make sure you take out one piece from the puzzle beforehand. Ask him/her to solve the puzzle. When he/she realizes one piece is missing, take that piece out from your pocket in which it is written, "Marry me because you complete me". It is a beautiful way to show your beloved how much he/she means to you.
  • Proposing while taking a walk in a romantic atmosphere like by the sea-shore, a secluded park or near a historical monument is also a good idea. It is simple, unexpected and is sure to win over your love. Make sure the timing is either early morning or late evening, around twilight. It adds to the romance.
  • Gift him/her a small book in which "Will you marry me" is written in different languages. The english version can be at the end of the book. Another idea is to eliminate the page in which the english version is written. When they ask you what it means, propose!
  • The last and the best way to propose is the traditional way. Go down on one knee, hold a single red rose on which the ring is tied with a ribbon and pop the question. Though old, this way is a sure winner and works every time.

When to Say I Love You

Now that you have decided how you are going to propose, just think if it is the right time to say I love you. Some people get carried away by emotions and often confuse love with infatuation and such similar feelings. Read on to know when to propose your love and when to say I love so that it sounds genuine and serious.
  • Always propose when you feel you are ready to take a person in your life. Do some introspection and come to a sane conclusion.
  • Give your relation some time to grow. You will get an idea as to where is it headed and take a decision according to the situation.
  • Make sure the other person is interested in having a life-long relation with you. Keep dropping hints now and then to see the response and then move forward with it.
  • The proposal is just a formality. Make sure you ask your beloved about marriage on a much serious level before you actually pop up the proposal.
  • Make sure your beloved is in a good mood. Else, the possible "Yes" may turn into a cold "No".

How Not to Propose

There are certain things that are to be kept in mind while proposing your love. You wouldn't want to mess up the whole thing and end up sending wrong signals to your beloved by wrong ways of proposing. In order to make sure that you make it special and emerge triumphant, we give you some of the worst ways of proposing. This should give you an idea of how not to propose.
  • NEVER propose over the phone or the Internet. It is the worst you can do, as it is too impersonal. Loving is all about expressing your feelings, which do not come out over the phone or the Internet. It shows you are not very serious about the whole thing.
  • Do not propose in front of a large crowd. You wouldn't want to embarrass your beloved and then get embarrassed yourself if he/she says No.
  • Do not be too humorous. It will seem that you are not serious about this proposal. Being too humorous while taking a serious decision spoils the mood and the ambience and blows up the whole thing.
  • Do not forget your manners and etiquettes while proposing. Don't propose while eating or while the person is at work. Give respect and you will get respect.
  • Do not propose when you don't mean it. Many people propose in the spur of the moment and then later regret their action. Do not give someone hopes and then smash it all at once.



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